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Thursday, June 9, 2011

AskAnjali: How to change my sudden strange feeling towards my family?

QUESTION ASKED:
Hello Anjali aunty and friends,

To know about my problem first I have to tell about my family, we are a modern family. My sister wears modern dresses like shorts and revealing type and she has boyfriend and goes out with him frequently and I perfectly don’t have any problem with that. But recently I met some guys and they just crashed my mind. They didn’t tell me any thing about my family or even I didn’t discuss with them. But after I met them I am suddenly changed.

Now I can’t stand my sister going out with her boyfriend and I am getting angry watching my sister in shorts. I don’t want any one to give my mom a social hug though it is normal between their friends. Strangely I am dreaming some erotic things about my sister that she has become heroine and directors, actors are enjoying her in front of me. I don’t know it never happened to me from last 25 years and suddenly I don’t understand this strange feelings.

My family members cannot understand me, what I want? What should I do? What that people had done to me? Why my mind took some other direction? Now please let me know how to become normal again.

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2 comments:

  1. Hi unusualchat,

    You yourself have realized the source of the problem you are facing,as you said : But recently I met some guys and they just crashed my mind. They didn’t tell me any thing about my family or even I didn’t discuss with them. But after I met them I am suddenly changed.……………….

    It looks like those guys were directly or indirectly able to program your mind against your family members and their openness. Now,if a program can be installed in our brain,then it can be uninstalled too. Uninstal what those guys installed in your brain against your family. Re-program yourself………….There is nothing wrong,if your sister is going out with boyfriends or wearing shorts,or your mom is giving hug to someone. Sometimes erotic fantasy may come in our mind regarding our family members. It doesn't matter. There is nothing to feel guilty or disgusted about those fantasy. Just put those fantasy aside. Concentrate on something else……….I think,you must :

    * Avoid those guys completely that initially poisoned your mind with negative suggestions.

    * In order to distort the erotic visualizations regarding your family members,you can try NLP techniques. NLP is very good for changing visual or auditory modalities.
    * I would suggest you to have some good friends with very liberal minds.
    * Think that your family members have every right to live their life the way they want to. After all,they are adults. You should let them live the life they want,and not control their life,even if that troubles your mind sometimes.
    * At the end,if you think,you can't control yourself and your imaginations,then get to a therapist………….
    * Don't worry. Everything will be just fine.

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  2. Better Avoid those guys and stay away from these guys, and about your sister wearing skirts or going out with her boy friend,it's her personal life let her live with it, and about the fantasy or wild dreams it's quite common at this age, just change your self back to whom you were before, it's not that difficult , then everything's gonna be okay.

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