Hi Anjali aunty,
I am 32 years old married male and my wife is 28 years & we are married for more than 3 years. I live in Delhi and I am Satisfied with my married life except the sex part. My wife is not interested in sex much. We do it occasionally may be 1-2 times in a month. Recently we had a baby so this also keeps her occupied and gets very less time to spend together. But my problem is I want to have sex more regularly. I had a friend in my school days I will say just friend because we were never in any kind of relationship.
When she proposed me, I had to say NO because of my studies and other stuffs. She is also married for 9 years now and having 2 kids. Recently, she somehow managed my contact number and came in touch with me since last 1 year. After a gap of 9 year, we started as just Hi Hello and usual friendly stuffs. But gradually I came to know that she still loves me (Though I am not sure about it because I dont love her and never shown any concern to her). After usual chatting for almost 1 year now, a few weeks ago she offered me to have sex with her.
She wants to come closer to me, my problem is whether should I accept this offer or not? If I think about sex and my starvation for sex in my married life, I want to make use of this opportunity. I really want to fuck her hard as she is very beautiful. I never touched a girl before my marriage & post marriage till date. But when I think about my married life and emotional bonding which I am having with my wife, my heart says NO to it.
I am confused, what should I do? Please suggest!
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