Hi Anjali Aunty,
My name is Uday and I am 25 years old male from Mumbai. I am very fair, smart and good looking guy. I came to know about this blog through my friend and I am posting my problem for the first time. My problem is I have extreme sexual desires. Also I consider myself very strong in sex. Till now I have 5 girlfriends in which 2 are unmarried and I still have relations with them.
In rest of three women 2 girlfriends settled in another city. Only one another girl is living in the same city and she is also still in relation with me. Other than these girlfriends I have 5 other girlfriends too. Whenever I am doing sex with a girl they use to say please finish it soon but I take more than 1/2 to 1 hour at least to ejaculate. After doing at least 1/2 to 1 hour sex only I can ejaculate and I loose erection. Sometimes I use to participate in group sex with 3 or 4 girls too, but I still feel horny and feel to have sex with more.
I do foreplay a lot with the girls while I am doing sex with them. After doing the foreplay only I go for penetration and I never forget to wear a condom. As I observed there are more girls and women attracting towards me, but they are shy to initiate. I do love to make more relations but I am scared to take initiation. Those present relations I have now are initiated by them self otherwise I would have never initiated with them myself. I am planning to take the help of my present girlfriends but I am little scared that they will misunderstand me.
Is it normal to have extreme sexual desires? Does my sexual relations with so many girls will affect my health and body in any manner? What should I do about those girls who are attracted to me but shy to initiate? How do I approach them for sex? Hoping for your quick reply.
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